From the authors of The 80/80 Marriage

B more connection U less stress S better sex Y less distraction L deeper love O less overwhelm V more laughter E less conflict

A Sexy Relationship System
for the Overwhelmed

Coming Valentine's Day 2027

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Kaley and Nate on Good Morning America

Read the Book That Started it All and Shift Your Relationship from 50/50 to 80/80

Nate and Kaley Klemp were both successful in their careers, consulting for high-powered companies around the world. Their work as mindfulness and leadership experts, however, often fell to the wayside when they came home in the evening, only to end up fighting about fairness in their marriage. From this frustration, they developed the idea of The 80/80 Marriage, a new model for balancing career, family, and love.

The 80/80 Marriage pushes couples beyond the limited idea of "fairness" toward a new model grounded on radical generosity and shared success, one that calls for each partner to contribute 80 percent to build the strongest possible relationship. Drawing from more than one hundred interviews with couples from all walks of life, husband-and-wife team Nate and Kaley Klemp pinpoint exactly what's not working in modern marriage. Their 80/80 model of marriage provides practical, powerful solutions to transform your relationship and open up space for greater love and connection.

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A new operating system for love — built for the modern couple.

Life these days? It's… a lot. Every day you're juggling work, kids, texts, calendars, logistics, and roughly 100 other to-dos that all feel urgent. This makes you feel busy. But it also leads you to prioritize everything in life—coworkers, extended family, friends, and even random people you hardly know—over time with your partner. Sound familiar?

Busy Love offers a way out. It starts with a hard truth: if you don't intentionally design your love, busyness will design it for you, by accident. So if you want to experience less busyness and more love, you need to shift from doing love by accident to doing it by design. You—our overwhelmed friends—need your own sexy relationship system, a system you and your partner can build together using the check-ins, habits, rituals, money hacks, logistical moves, and intimacy tips of Busy Love.

Available in Stores Everywhere From Penguin Random House, Valentine's Day 2027

"When life gets busy, most couples fall into the habit of winging it and doing love by accident, which causes all sorts of problems. The key to strengthening your relationship is to break this habit – to spend less time winging it, more time setting up a system for your love, by design." — Kaley & Nate

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